StayCation Day 2: Daddy is a Luchador!

Hola, hello friends and fam! Happy…Thursday, I almost forgot what day it was. As most Americans around the nation, we cancelled Spring Break plans but I decided to keep my time off and recharge, reflect and spend some quality time with my kiddos while Meghan gets work done. Because this is Ricky’s planned spring break, we are actually not doing many academic activities outside of 30 min of daily reading. We want him to be a kid and tap into his creativity and imagination during this time of social distancing. We had a great day yesterday, here is everything I did to keep a sense of normalcy.

The day started with sleeping in…it is my staycation! Shout out to Meggy who let me sleep in! I think I got up at 9:30 and it was glorious. To be honest the kids also slept in, otherwise, Meg would have gotten my butt up, book it! Upon waking up, I went into the living room and said good morning to my kiddos and gave them a kiss as they were chowing down on some breakfast. I went over to Olivia’s chair and signed good morning, more to come on this as we are going to take this time to accelerate learning sign. I had my morning fuel (coffee) watched a little Get Up! and then went upstairs to my home office area to check in on work. After ~30 minutes of work and checking in, I set up my new Turtle Beach Wireless headphones and played a quick session of Call of Duty. Yes, I am a gamer and love playing games. Like everything else, I find the balance to not over play in lieu of family time. Quick story on my headphones, I finally spent some extra money and got wireless as my last pair (not wireless) were destroyed. About 2 months ago, I had a brand new nice pair or TB headphones but after 3 days, I noticed they were not working. After a closer examination, I noticed one of my cats, probably Rizzo, chewed them up! $60 down the toilet thanks to Rizzo chewing it up like its cat nip. We have 4 cats by the way, 3 too many if you ask me but don’t tell Meg or Gracie that :). Anyways, Meg blamed me for not getting wireless to begin with so I went ahead and splurged a bit on brand new wireless headphones…they are money by the way.

After a quick gaming session, Ricky Bear like many kids loves watching “YouTubers” and he said he wanted to create a video for his Ricky Bear Tv station and I said perfect but you need to help come up with a script! He was confused by what that entailed. I then talked to the kiddos today about the importance of content and processes! As a producer in game development, nothing is more critical than fresh content and a process to get to the final content! I said the script and brainstorming phase is part of the process. I told them, in this world more than ever, content is king! It’s king in my world and in their world. People want instant satisfaction and they want fresh, brand new content and experiences. Yesterday, Ricky and Gracie fresh off watching Nacho Libre and with my screen writing skills came up with a script and we made some creative content! We created something together!

Here is the video! Enjoy! We are coming for that short film Oscar! More content to come. Ricky said show your kiddos and like and subscribe 🤷🏻‍♂️ More #CreativeContent to come! 🎥 

I present; Daddy is a Luchador! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cxUlUbOTXE

After feeling like Ron Howard, we had a late lunch as a family. After lunch, Coach Rick time and we went outside and played some sports! Ricky got 50 shots up as he continues to practice with a heavier ball and 10 foot rims. Super proud of his work ethic and ability to make shots. His form is great. As I told him, I’d rather see airballs and misses BUT shooting properly and not jeopardizing his shooting form. His strength will come and mixed with his shooting mechanics, he’ll be a great shooter like his pops, ok, yes a better shooter than me. Then, we went to the backyard to work on some baseball drills. Yesterday was fielding day, so we worked on his throwing and fielding mechanics. We did some pop ups and worked on his footwork to track the balls. Then, we transitioned to middle infield drills with an emphasis on 2 bagger or second base. We talked about the importance of getting the lead runner, turning two is a bonus, footwork around the bag, becoming a first baseman in case of bad throws, and then glove to hand transfer for a quick turn. We even went over SS and how to swipe second base with his right foot, he thought that was a cool move and I was really impressed with him actually being able to do it after just seeing it for the first time. I used to totally whiff on the bag but most umps can’t see your foot and they assume you touch it and call the runner out, little trick of the trade;) I also found some time to practice with Gracie girl! We went over the defense ready position and worked on some grounders and throws! As a coach, I miss being out there with my team and coaches. Our season is currently delayed but I may start some virtual practices. If you need help with drills, hit me up!

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After practice, I went on a run with Cubby our 100lb dog. Right before my run, I noticed a guy waiting on the corner. Turns out he’s my neighbor but we never met. He introduced himself and he went to shake hands and I was like ughh no sorry and he understood but I was surprised he even went for it. Anyways, I went on a run to blow some stress and enjoy the nice spring weather. I then took a shower, definitely later than usual but I did my daily prayer. Yes, my go to praying spot is the shower, which makes sense if you think about it. It’s private and a great place to reflect. After a quick shower, we had a nice dinner with the fam. Meg made my favorite, chicken parm! After dinner, we started watching Despicable Me 3. Once the movie was over, I played COD with the Sheriff of Noyes, not the real sherriff, inside joke here ha and some neighborhood dudes as the kids were getting ready for bed. I told my buddies, I only have an hour as Meg and I were planning on a night cap and a movie. The Sheriff was also watching a movie with his wife.

Around 9:15 we sat down, we both grabbed some bourbon and we watched Knives Out! We both really enjoyed it, great cast, great twist at the end, and an entertaining thriller/comedy. Finally, after a full day, a great day we went night night around midnight. We hope you are having a great spring break so far given the circumstances. Let’s keep praying, helping and looking out for each other. Don’t just use social distancing as a buzz word but actually do it. I hope this blogs provides some knowledge on CP, deafness and also entertainment during these weird times. Stay safe, stay healthy and May God Bless our healthcare workers!

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Game On!

I hope everyone had a great weekend! I was lucky to have Monday off, so I enjoyed a nice 3 day weekend with friends and family. As most of you know, I am a huge sports fan. I grew up playing and watching sports. I remember getting home from school and turning on WGN to watch Harry Carry and Steve Stone call the Cubs game. “It might be, it could be, Holy Cow, Cubs Win, Cubs Win!” My favorite players growing up were Ryne “Ryno” Sandberg which is also the name of our English Bulldog and Andre Dawson. Those were my favorite players as a child. I also remember getting home from church and watching Da Bears. We had some pretty bad Bears and Cubs teams growing up so thank goodness for Da Bulls! I witnessed two separate dynasties! Therefore, I was also a huge Bulls fan too. Michael Jordan was the best thing ever, summer celebrations at Grant Park were the norm and I was spoiled that the greatest player of all time and the greatest team ever the 72-10 Bulls was my team! These teams and players helped cultivate my love for sports at such a young age! I was pretty good at all sports, #athlete! However, I gravitated to baseball and then basketball. My older brother played baseball and my dad played baseball so it was natural that I picked it up from a young age. I do recall crying on the ground not wanting to play baseball. I am so glad my parents “made” me as I fell in love with it when I was 5 years old. I didn’t start playing basketball until I was in 4th grade and at first just liked playing with my friends but then just like baseball I got better at it and also loved it. It was a close second place to baseball though. Eventually I lettered in both sports in High School and could have played D3 baseball but ultimately decided to hang up the cleats until softball down the road.

Sports continue to be a big part of my life now. Not only is it a stress reliever to watch a big game or cheer on my team, but it has also helped knit a special bond between my son and I. My son since he was born has had a ball in his hand or because of my father in law even a hockey stick. He loves all the teams his dad loves and he also loves to play sports! Since we moved down to Texas, I have coached my son’s baseball teams and basketball teams! I take coaching serious as I know I the type of impact I can have on my son and all the kids I coach. I cherish these times I have with my son and love teaching the game and how to play the game the right way. I always told my wife that as long as I can do it, I will coach my son. Those moments we have together are priceless! I have a passion for coaching, passion to teach the games I love and a passion to teach my son life skills through sports. I don’t have any crazy parent expectations that my son will be in the MLB or in the NBA, however, I do see talent and want to extract that from him and help him be the best player that can be. Although, my wife will remind me from time to time to be more patient with him just like a good assistant coach would say and the dude abides. This past weekend was a great sports weekend for us. Saturday he had a basketball game in a battle of undefeated teams and his team prevailed in a 18-16 nail biter! He played a great all around game showcasing everything we have been working on; his defense, dribbling and also hit a key free throw right before halftime that gave his team some momentum. The win was great but I was more proud of the way he competed, applied what we have been practicing, listened to coach and did not back down from a bigger team. You have to work for your what you want! Perfect practice makes the perfect player. Those skills and lessons learned travel! After the game we went out with some friends to celebrate the nice Texas weather and the effort our boys demonstrated. Later that night, Meghan and I went downtown with some friends for a great meal and some dancing. One busy day!

Monday was a great day as it was the first time I put Ricky in baseball lessons. It was difficult as I love and take pride in being his “baseball instructor” but at the same time it was great to see Ricky out of his comfort zone. We have been in basketball mode but spring ball is right around the corner. He loved the lesson and he was a quick learner with new drills. As long as he enjoys these lessons, I will continue to support him and do what I can to set him up for success. After baseball, I played 18 holes with a buddy of mine. Golf is another stress reliever, although it can cause some stress as I have a love-hate relationship with golf but I really do love being on the course and being outside. I had gotten into golf in my mid 20’s. I hated being absolutely terrible at a sport, so slowly but surely I got to become pretty average and I am ok for now just being average. Every round I have those shots that just keep bringing me back. I love the challenge and playing with friends. Following the round, my same buddy asked us if we wanted to go to dinner. They have two kids who are really good friends with my kids so it was a really nice evening and a great way to end the holiday weekend.

After the kids went to bed, I hopped on and played some Call of Duty with some of my neighborhood buddies! Like most little boys, I loved video games but I have been on a 5 year break ever since my girls were born. Gaming has also been a nice stress reliever and break from the day to day grind. We usually coordinate via text and for two hours just have a good time playing and connecting via video games. The headsets really bring out the social experience. I bought a new headset only to have my cats chew through the cord, smh! They were basically brand new! I was livid as this isn’t the first time they ruined headphones or chargers. I am now in the market for some new “wireless” headphones so if you have any recommendations, let me know!

In conclusion, it’s important to have some hobbies and stress receivers. There is nothing wrong getting your game on! Find some time for your hobby or spend time with your kids and their hobbies. My ‘game on’ means, watching sports, playing golf, practicing with my kids, coaching my son and his teammates and even playing some video games! Meg is awesome and allows me to golf as she knows it’s one of my favorite hobbies. It can be time consuming so I definitely pick and choose when to play. Moderation is the key. Perhaps when the kids get older I can get more serious about golf and make a run at the PGA tour! Ha!

What do all of you do to get your game on and blow some stress?

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